How my past trials strengthened my relationship with Jesus Christ.

When Chris lost his job at IBM we went through a period of 2 1/2 years where he did not have a steady job with income enough to support us.  It was a difficult time for me with three young children.  Going to work didn't seem like the right thing to do.  We didn't have family around to watch the girls and thus would end up paying more for childcare than the income I would be able to provide.  I did do some substitute teaching which helped but there was a constant struggle to make ends meet.  We got into a lot of debt during this period of time.  It was a hard time for our family and on me personally.  I remember pleading with my Father in Heaven to help Chris find a job, I reached a point where I felt like I could not bear it a single day more.  And you know what?  The burden wasn't lifted.  It would be another 18 months before he would get a steady job.  And what did I learn from that?  I learned that the heartfelt prayers I gave during that period of time made me stronger.  I learned that the Holy Ghost does attend to us when we keep his commandments.  I learned that the more I prayed and studied the word of the Lord, the more I knew Him.  And those are blessings I am very grateful for.  Now when I look back on that time I remember a Darilyn that was strong.  More strong than I probably am now.  One thing the Lord taught me when I was going through that time in my life is that it was for a reason.  I am able to have compassion and empathy for others that are going through financial difficulties. I'm glad that I can offer that to others.  God is good.  He really is.

My a testimony of Jesus Christ

I'm reading a book about becoming closer to the Savior in 21 days. 

I gave this book to Makenzie a few years ago and at the time warned a copy for myself as well but didn't have the money for 2. I just got a version for my ipad. I still wish I had the actual book but this was a lot less expensive. The book is "21 Days Closer To Christ" by Emily Freeman. 

I am encouraged to keep a journal of my experiences while doing this. I've always thought of this blog as my journal so I will record my thoughts and feelings here. 

Today I would like to share my testimony of Jesus Christ. 

I know He lives. I know He is a true and living being who came to this earth to gain a body, be baptized, teach and then atone for all the sins and pains of this mortal existence. I know this is true because I know our Heavenly Father loves us. He loves me. And wants me to live with him again someday. But no unclean thing can live in the presence of God. That makes sense. So if we, being imperfect commit sin. We need a way to become clean to return to Him. That is why I know that Jesus Christ is real. Because our Heavenly Father would DEFINITELY provide a way for us. 

Recently I've been incredibly sad because I have a child that feels unloved, angry and resentful towards me. It breaks my heart. As I've contemplated my responsibility in her decisions I came to this conclusion one day:  The atonement of Jesus Christ applies to me in this situation. Wow! What comfort and peace that gave me. I may make mistakes as a parent. I'm not perfect. No one is. But Jesus Christ makes up the difference for me. That time he suffered in Gethsemane was for me. Through His complete atonement I am made free from the guilt I would have from being an imperfect parent. We did/do our best to raise our children. And our best is what our Father in Heaven asks of us. 

I am grateful for my savior, Jesus Christ. 

Why I Write

2 Nephi 25:21-26

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Wherefore, for this cause hath the Lord God promised unto me that these things which I write shall be kept and preserved, and handed down unto my seed, from generation to generation, that the promise may be fulfilled unto Joseph, that his seed should never perish as long as the earth should stand.

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Wherefore, these things shall go from generation to generation as long as the earth shall stand; and they shall go according to the will and pleasure of God; and the nations who shall possess them shall be judged of them according to the words which are written.

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For we labor diligently to write, to persuade our children, and also our brethren, to believe in Christ, and to be reconciled to God; for we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do.

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And, notwithstanding we believe in Christ, we keep the law of Moses, and look forward with steadfastness unto Christ, until the law shall be fulfilled.

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For, for this end was the law given; wherefore the law hath become dead unto us, and we are made alive in Christ because of our faith; yet we keep the law because of the commandments.

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And we talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins.

I Did It

When Chris and I discussed what to do for our 20th wedding anniversary I knew I wanted two things: to go somewhere warm and to BE ACTIVE. I wanted to celebrate having lost 80 lbs. I wanted to do and try things I'd never done before. And although I love a good lazy day at the beach I wanted the focus of this trip to be more about a celebration of the gift God has given me, a healthy body. 

We had heard of the Kalalau trail from a friend of ours. She has hiked it several times and said that if we were ever in Hawaii we should do it. Since Hawaii is on my list of 50 Things I Want To Do In My Life....we thought it sounded like a good idea. It did meet my two requirements after all. 

Then the trip didn't happen in 2013. It was becoming more and more apparent that I needed to have foot surgery on my left foot in order to do this hike. I was in constant pain and I knew that I would not be able to hike that far in my current condition. So in April of this year I underwent reconstructive surgery for my tarsal coalition. The recovery was long. And even 2 weeks before our scheduled hike I was doubting my ability to do it. 

But we left on September 12th to fly to Kauai. And on the 14th we began what would become the most grueling, difficult and proudest physical accomplishment in my life. 

I can say I hiked the Kalalau Trail. 

I survived. 

There were no medals at the end nor people chanting my name. But in my head I knew that 3 years ago, doing this hike would have been out of the question. I've accomplished so much more than completing a difficult trail. I've completed a journey of taking care of the body Heavenly Father has given me. 80 lbs lighter, a corrected foot and a cardiovascular system that is in good working condition.  

Heidi-First Day of High School

Sam, I love you and always will. March 7th, 2005 - August 27th, 2014

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You were the first pet I really "wanted."  Sure, there have been cats that have come and gone but you, you were special.  I chose you.  I chose you over a gorgeous Sun Conure and tantalizing blue quaker parrot.  You were special though, I could tell.  So I chose you.  That was March of 2005, nine years ago.  Your emerald green color with a peek of blue on your tail feathers were amazing.  You loved me.  You loved each and every one of us in this family.  Even Heidi you pretended to not like just so you could have pecking order over her. But when she was sick you crooned and cried with her.  Speaking of crooners, that was your favorite music.  The swingers and standards of the 40s.  You would sing along and bob up and down.

I hand-fed you.  You were just hatched and so I would go into the store every day to feed you until you were old enough for me to take home and feed.  We bonded then and from then on I was your momma bird.  But to be completely honest, you loved Emma most.  She would come home every day from school and just spend 20 minutes preening your pin feathers.  You would puff up so big.  You loved that.

When we first got you we didn't know if you were a boy or a girl so we named you Sam.  When you were about 3 years-old we had a DNA test done that told us you were a boy.  Finally!!! Another boy in the May family.  So you were officially Sam and not Samantha!

You weren't just loved by your immediate family though.  You loved your grandma Marilyn and Grandma Ladda and Nanna Donna.  The grandpas not so much except for Papa Ben.  He had a way with you and I'm sure right now you are sitting on his shoulder looking down at us.

I loved it most when you would sit on my shoulder and preen me.  Carefully choosing pieces of my hair to clean off.  Who knows what you were cleaning off, I probably don't want to know.  But it was your way of caring for me.  You even bit off a couple of my moles.  It hurt like heck but I know you were just trying to get that speck of dirt off of me.

We don't know how you died.  I'm so sorry if it was something we did unknowingly.  Watching you die is one of the hardest things I've had to watch. I was sitting in the vet's office with you in a small carrier on my lap.  I heard you rustle around. I looked, and your head was down.  I knew.  I still called for someone to rush you back.  They did but you were already gone.

I'm so sorry, Sam.  You should have had so many more years on this earth.  So many more years as our birdie.  So many more years to torment Heidi.  So many more years to love on all of us.  But instead you left this earth at a young age.  I know you're flying.  And you're happy.

And that's enough for now.

Summer smoothie

My awesome friend, Amanda, hooked me up with my new Blendtec blender. So it's been smoothie time around here. 

Today I made this blend of strawberries, blueberries, vanilla protien powder, banana and ice. I love the color the blueberries give to it. 

Cheer, y'all!!!!